When people betray you, hurt you, lie about you and mess you up actually BENEFIT’S you!

Ok here me out, when people betray us in any form, it hurts, I understand that. It can give us devastating consequences such as mental illness and physical illness, it can turn our whole world upside down.

But these things happen because of ‘karmatic contracts’ and ‘Law of Attraction’.

When you choose to come and be incarnated on this planet You chose to an extent your experiences. Some of those experiences are attracted through law of attraction and that can include negative experiences. In this article we are talking about other SHI**Y HUMANs that hurt us but it does correspond with negative things such as illness, debt and loss of loved ones.

To an extent we do attract negativity to us IF we are being negative, thus bringing more negativity – however when it comes to certain people that are in our lives who hurts us terribly, I believe this is due to karmatic contracts. Maybe in a passed life you had some ‘Karma’ that had to be cleared and balanced or we agreed with other souls before incarnation.

I personally feel its to teach us valuable lessons in order for our soul and sprit. here’s my personal example to explain what I mean.

I had a Dr recently screw me over in a very bad bad way, it affected my whole life and for the first time in a long time I developed depression. Fatigue, tearful, agitated and couldn’t be arsed to do anything I lost faith in humanity of how a professional that I knew in a whole of 3 hours could screw me over.

Someone who in society is seen as someone who is meant to help and look after us. However, this did happen. But when I calmed down and reflected, I could see Why this had happened and why this is happening now. I had a terrible childhood and from that I developed low self-esteem, I’m overly sensitive to criticism and have an extreme anxiety disorder which can cause me to come across defensive.

When really looking into this situation I could see that actually it was for me to face those ‘inner child’ dark moments of my soul which still hasn’t fully recovered from my childhood. Even though I felt I had. I realised that but letting my anxiety get the better of me ‘I’ came across defensive and was seen to be dismissing towards the doctor, that made me look bad. So, I need to manage my anxiety more and not feel like I’m being attacked when receiving information. I also realised I had been too open to someone I didn’t know and too emotional when I needed to be more professional. My emotional intelligence went out the window that day! However, you would naturally assume a ‘DOCTOR” is going to help you not hinder you!

I also learnt I need to work on my self-esteem and accept criticism as just someone’s point of view, Its MY choice to take it on board or not. It doesn’t mean she was right, or wrong, but how “I’ interpret that situation. We cannot control other people, they may be having a bad day, or their belief systems give them a certain view on a situation. We have to accept that people will accuse us of things that we may not be. In my case being labeled a ‘lier’ and ‘uncaring’ to an extent. I know I am very caring and sensitive to others so I know this is not true. By understanding those karmatic Contracts and why people hurt us are actually to teach us a lesson to grow and be stronger so we can start to heal from this situation. And yes, I did a formal complaint also, because despite my view on the situation I have the free will to explain my point of view. Even if nothing comes from the complaint, I can feel secure that I put my point across. (and being assertive is something I do need to work on!)

So, as you can see from my example, I took the situation I was in and tried to understand the lessons I was meant to learn from it. These negatives emotions I was feeling where does it stem from? Why did I feel that way and react? How can I take this experience and learn from it? whenever we have anything bad happen to us, things always and I KNOW !!! from personal experience something amazing always gets draw to us afterwards – as long as were will to accept and learn.

Love and light

Soulcoast

XxX

P.s if you need spiritual or psychic guidance to understand WHY a bad situation happened to you, feel free to visit my Etsy shop ‘ soulcoast’ for a psychic reading for guidance.

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