2 Easy Simple ways to Increase your Self Confidence!

Many people in life feel that they have a lack of confidence or that they have a low self-esteem I myself have managed have struggled and still do struggle with my self-confidence and esteem. From a over controlling mother and reletionships with others that were similar, all pushed me down internally and stopped me being the person who I was! However I found just 2 simple things I do really help me to improve my self confidence and I hope they will help you too!

These were the things I decided to take on board:

Number 1-

‘It is not important what other people think of you’

Trust me it REALLY isn’t. you need to realises its what ‘YOU think of yourself’ that actually matters. As long as your living morally, just be who you want to be, and if that means lots of people don’t talk to you then so what? You are not here for other people, you are here for yourself and your souls journey to learn , that what’s you came here to do.

Number 2-

‘You need to start to like yourself’

There are various things about you as a person you do not like but which you cannot change. It could be your appearance. it could be the way you talk or anything, but it’s doesn’t matter. You therefore have to start accepting these things and realising that maybe there are other people in life who are more unfortunate than you and there are other people in life who WILL love you for who you are. Just be happy with yourself, and only improve things about yourself if its going to benefit your soul and give you abundance e.g don’t go to the gym unless you really want to! You need to have respect for yourself and do not accept second best in life, you have one shot at this life and so you must live it the way your heart is telling you too! (within morals of courses and not living a way that damages you in anyway)

Be happy, relax and apricate the amazing person you are!

I suggest starting a ‘self-reflection journal’ and everyday write down into the journal what you like about yourself

And the things you don’t like about yourself, how can you like them, what’s a different way to look at it? Can you come to acceptance and focus your intentions on your personal fulfilment?

Love and Light

Soulcoast

Xxx