When our loved ones die… where do they go? What do they do? And are they REALLY with us?

Ok I get asked this a lot from people, who want to know what happens to there loved ones. I guess the thought of someone we love so much still being around us is just to good to be true, but it is true, in fact in ways they can help us even more. Ok it not the same as them physically being here however the fact they can watch over us can really help us be protected and guided during our life experience.

You see when someone dies, they cross over to the spirit plane, and who is them to welcome them will depend a lot on their beliefs. If they are religious, say Christianity it may be angels and pearly white gates or for a lot of people it will be their parents, grandparents and friends who passed over before them.

When they arrive, they are very confused, they don’t have their physical body or a sense of time anymore because they are not on earth. Their floating and everything they do is controlled by their thoughts. It takes time to practice telekinesis and they are consciousness. They do have a body, and they do pick what age they want to be, so don’t be surprised if your grandma appears to a medium as she looked at 25 YEARS OLD! They are made from a type of material but not of something we don’t have on earth. Its hard to get your head around because we have a physical body and live and breath on a planet.

When they get to the other side, they are explained they are dead and as there is no sense of time, they may be shown their dead body or their funeral in order to gain an understanding. There is no pain or sorrow where they are now, only love and peace, so this wouldn’t upset them, if anything they would feel for your sorrows.

Then, those that have crossed over and had time to accept and understand where they are. have a life review, this is when they go to like a giant library, and are given a large book, its kind of like an iPad, and usually their main spirit guide will be there. They go over their life, the good and the bad times, things they did and are explained why some things happened and how that created a ripple effect for all involved. They can also look over all their past lives they’ve had before and if they want to look at what their life would have been if they made different choices. And they can go back to this library whenever they choose.

The spirit plane is huge, its simple infinity. There are all different types of souls there, spirit guides, your ancestors and yes celebrities. There are also different races and I mean as from other dimensions and planets. There are children their who have never been born and yet to be born your child who you will have 5 years from now will be their already.

What do they do all day? Well a medium told me once it’s like ‘Harry Pottery’, you can do anything you want (In good reason). You can have sex and eat food because you remember feelings from when you were on earth, however it is slightly different. But most of the tie your past loved ones will be with you, all the time. Ok you get privacy in the shower and if your getting dressed or having sex, but whenever you think of them or whatever your doing, even riding on a train to work, they will be there. They watch over you and try and help guide your intuition into the right direction. They can hear your thoughts from where they are or they can be right behind you.

So, if you ever want to talk to them, they can here and they will try and find ways to reply, usually its with a thought that pops into your head or song on the radio or maybe words that pop up in a newspaper. Or you may see their car they drove. Don’t ask me how they do it but they just can, it’s truly amazing!

So, if you ever need guidance or advice, just ask your love one in spirit because they can hear you 😊, and when you pass over, they will be there to show you everything they went through when they passed over.

Love and Light

Soulcoast

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