The Divine Feminine

*This transcript is not an exact copy of the podcast dialogue

It does not matter if you are a female identity as a female or a male or non-binary everyone can connect to the Divine feminine energy.

So what is the divine feminine? It’s an energy that is nurturing and sensual, not looking back or looking too much in the future, being very loving, very kind, being very compassionate and creative. And what's very important is being able to connect to your intuition. A lot of characteristics of being very healing and self-empowered, inspired, and connect to mother earth (all the creative, humans, and planet as a whole)

We also do have the shadow side of the divine feminine energy, the negative traits such as controlling, emotionally unstable ( not mental health or personality disorders) very out of control in a malicious or malevolent way, taking things for granted, taking advantage or victim mentality. Or feeling you are objectified or exploited, that includes sexually or oppressed.

When I look at my mother, my mother had a lot of these shadow side of the divine feminine traits, so a lot of those traits got rubbed off onto me when I was younger, such as the negative emotions or being judgmental very much is the shadow side of the divine feminine and those lower end of those frequencies. It took me a long time, basically, when I had my first child at 25 that’s when I very much connected to my divine feminine, or possible before actually, I actually understood myself a lot better in my earliest 20s and was a lot more compassionate, and forgiving as I learned that judging or being unstable, or why my emotions were not ok, I got mental health help and got rid of that victim mentality, I kind of raised my vibration. And become more on the positive side of the divine feminine characteristics and that took a long time from the age 21-27 to really get in touch with me as a person and my natural divine feminine energy.

What I’m trying to say, a lot of people bring us up, especially our mothers; as a lot of my clients I speak to have a negative relationship with their mothers and so that can sometimes throw you off balance in being connected to your divine feminine state.

Menstrual cycles - for people who identify as a woman who has menstrual cycles, so specifically that have a menstrual cycle. I’m not trying to separate everyone else but if you do experience that change of emotions on a monthly basis, which is related to the hormonal changes of a menstrual cycle, one tip I wanted to give to the divine feminine. Is to keep track of your menstrual cycles, you will so understand yourself a lot better because there be certain points in your cycles that very productive or a lot of energy or certain parts that you have a low mood or hard to be motivated, and if you can keep track of your cycle this is a way you can get in touch with your natural divine feminine energy and this help you to understand better, so your be able when to predict certain times of the month you will be feeling a certain way, or the best time of the months your be better productive and those would be the best time of the months to focus on your goals. Or times of the month you feel a low mood and this is when you need to be nurturing to yourself. understanding those changes in what part of the months you need to focus and on an the divine feminine character list of being self-nurturing, taking care of yourself, taking things it easy. And then on other times of the month, you can connect better to the divine masculine and so you can draw together that energy of being really focused and logical and going after your goals. That go-getter mindset.. keep a log of your hormonal changes, as these changes do have a massive effect on you. if you identify as a woman or non binary you are more susceptible to hormonal changes and I have that men are too.

I just want to go into what are the traits of you have already awoken to your divine feminine energy, as I said it's not just for woman, but those who identify as woman, its for nonbinary, its for people who don’t specify to a specific gender but acknowledge this energy characteristic. It doesn’t matter if you are a man, or identify as a man or very masculine – we all need this energy, just like we need the divine masculine energy we need duality we need both energies.

There is so much information on the divine feminine and I think this is because this energy is connected to the divine, some woman can have babies and give birth and we can create not only in our bodies, but we are naturally more creative ( that creation energy) and its a lot more connected to intuition and psychic abilities. and the divine feminine energy is connected to all these things and in today's society, we are going towards that way of thinking, more spiritual. In the past we have had a lot of patriarchy ruling, a lot of the bad side of the divine masculine and I think we needed those energies on earth as we have had to hunt, we have had to build shelter we have had to create order in society, and the divine masculine has helped for our survival on earth but I think a lot more now we have entered into the age Aquarius which I know is a process that has been happening for many years but we are a lot more awoken and a lot more connected to our 5dd selves, and a lot more connected to the higher frequencies and emotions and that has a knock-on effect of being a lot more in touch with the divine feminine. if you look in society, a woman is treated more equal as men, more becoming as CEO and not 2nd class citizens, we need to respect woman and their energy ( more common in females) and starting to understand more about emotions and our mental health and this is connected again because of this energy.

And with the divine masculine, were not looking at the negative traits of the patriarchy and the control, we are looking at the protection, setting goals, taking responsibilities, and appreciating the feminine energy. A lot more of both sides of these energies we are incorporating into ourselves. Which is really good to see, a lot more people are going to be happy in life and society.

Signs you may have awoken are

· Recently, or last year, you have been doing some shadow work, looking at your past to understand yourself better or go to traditional therapy focus on your mental health

· More forging to those who have hurt you and come to a place of acceptance, thinking of yourself and moving on

· More expressive of how you feel

· More communicative and interacting with others and speaking your mind,

· Not being a judgment and being conscious of how you express yourself

· Look at those old fashion views against woman, as the stereotypes, woman are hysterical, woman are emotional, a woman isn’t strong enough to be in the military or just here to have children, if you don’t have children there must be something wrong with you or even woman should be naturally good at child-rearing, woman are here to put their partners first…yawn, a woman not getting CEO positions or not obtaining certain jobs because they are childbearing age. You realize how WRONG these views are and how we are all uniquely different and have different trait about us that isn’t defined by gender

· You start having an open mind

· Your more present in the everyday

· Not letting anxiety or depression pull you down

· You love yourself more, you accept your personality or invest in yourself to be even better, or if you're lacking a way you working on it

· What your eating, your more conscious of eating more a lot healthier, or some have become vegan.

· The ultimately one is – psychic abilities – your intuition increased your having signs, you're seeing angel numbers, or interested in the tools of divination

Ways you can help awaken this energy

· Honour yourself – understand your emotional state a lot better on a regular basis, such as things and people. Mental health issues that you may have and need to explore? Spiritual or traditional therapy.

· Self imagine, how you feel about the way you look, your body, your face, do you feel good or not about these things? It's one thing to think I want to feel good and toned or lose a bit of weight, those mentalities are fine, but to just not like the way you look, and not being happy isn’t going to help you connect to this energy as the divine feminine is connected to mother earth/ Gaia divine and to love all of her creations, and we are creators. We haven’t chosen the body we are in that is biology we choose what we wear how we do our makeup or hair , to some extent we have a choice and so we have a choice to how we feel. Don’t compare yourself to others. This is very hard, I find it hard and you will need to work on yourself

· Working on your intuition and connect to your psychic ability, whatever that may be, and looking to trusting your gut instinct and trusting your intuition. You can ask your guides or spirits to help you along but its about trusting your gut and asking yourself does this feel right? Start of small such as how you feel the day, and see if you were right at the end of the day.

· Speaking your truth, is very important, of course, be considerate of others, if you don’t agree with a point of view and be acceptance of their view and still expressing your own but not undermining their view

· Gratitude – be grateful for what you have, every day, at least 3 things

· Sacred space – creating a sacred routine, such as a nice bath once a week or 10 mins day to meditate or 20 mins every other day to journal – a time where it's you on your own and being able to just be content or reflect on things

· Imagination and creativity – do both, if you're at work and you're doing something on autopilot, imagine what it is like to drive a pink Ferrari or ‘wouldn’t it be nice’ if your thinking of the law of attraction sense – to help manifest while your daydreaming. Or make something, paint, doodling, if you got kids play with your kids or crafting or make something out of Lego inspiring that creativity, is a fast way to get that energy within yourself

· Look at your relationship with your mother in your life – was this healthy? Or not? A lot of us did have a narcissistic mothers growing up so what beliefs systems do you have about mothers and how can you be a mother to yourself. If you’re a mother and have children, this may come easiest to yourself, but think if you were your own mother what would you say to yourself, how would you portray those qualities, how would you show those mothering characteristics

· Finding a spiritual guru that is feminine – mine is Mel Robbins, there is also a woman on YouTube who runs the channel guiding echoes who I also inspiring as a teacher. You can look closer to homes such as a friend's mother or grandmother. There also deities and goddesses – mine is Lilith, a lot don’t like her and if I need that sensual or powerful female energy I reach out to her.

The benefits to connecting to this energy- you will have a better connection to yourself that’s deeper. We are here ( on earth) to understand ourselves and to understand our perspective and that of others, this will make you truly happy is to understand who you are and then understand your passions and then where you are going in your life path.

Your start gaining more wisdom and knowledge, more authentic, better at communication such as be more willing to communicate to those around you whether that’s verbal, sign language or blogging etc. You let the past go and not let them hold you back. You also trust others and also feel confident that if you are let down by others you be ok and move on healthy. Your more compassion towards people and in society, not so judgemental- remember we are here to learn about perspectives and that knowledge is then passed into the akashic records which are sent to source and also passed down to our children and the next generation. And psychic abilities, if you are wanting to explore your abilities, or be a stranger clairvoyant or medium or be able to use tools of divination better such as tarot or oracle cards, being able to communicate in your spirit guides, the divine feminine is going to help you as its a lot more connected to the divine.

Law of attraction and the divine feminine – now this is important, the creation part is the divine feminine and the action aspect is the divine masculine, those traits such as trusting your intuition, trusting signs, connecting to your higher self which you can do by connecting with this energy which then helps you then take inspired action ( divine masculine). Your a lot more connected in the present and so you be able to attract your desires to you faster, because feeling good about yourself and your life helps lift your vibration higher which brings our desires to us.

I hope you enjoyed this, if you have any questions or want to discuss please comment below

Love and light

Soulcoast

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